Tips For Staying With An Addict Without Enabling

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People are bound to have addicted partners since 23 million plus U.S. citizens have drug problems. Maintaining a relationship with an addict can be a struggle because of the tendency for a loved one to enable. The partner may think that helping the person fulfill the urge to get high is helping, but it isn’t. In fact, enabling a partner is one reason that some addicts stay in their cycles for many years. The following are some tips on keeping a relationship with an addict without enabling:

Don’t Help the Addicted Person Get Drugs

The first tip for anyone who wants to stay with an addict is to give that person an unequivocal “no” about getting drugs. The partner should not lend the addicted person money or have any parts in convincing anyone else to do such. Instead, the caring partner should suggest alternative activities and strategies to compensate for the temporary craving.

Encourage Recovery Without Being Pushy

Recovery can be a touchy subject, but the addict’s partner should still do it as much as possible. The partner can give the addicted person pamphlets, books and brochures to a recovery facility if the person is receptive to it.

Provide Emotional Support

Emotional support is the most important part of making a strained relationship work. Addiction often develops because of an emotional void in a person’s life. The partner will want to provide a loving ear and shoulder for the addicted person without enabling. Sometimes addicted persons play on the mate’s emotions to get drugs. A partner always has to stay on his or her toes and watch out for such craftiness.

An addicted person’s partner will want to offer recovery assistance, as well. The person should offer to come to recovery meetings with the addicted mate. The potential for successful long-term recovery increases when a person has someone that he or she can trust in the vicinity.

Relationships can work even when one person has a drug or alcohol addiction. Both parties must be willing to invest in it.

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